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Bridal Make-Up

It’s hard work being a bride. Not only does everyone expect you to look beautiful on the day itself, but the results must stand up to scrutiny for years afterwards, in photos and on video. So it’s worth the extra effort to perfect your appearance.
 

Most local hairdressing salons (as well as big city salons) can put a bride in touch with a professional make-up artist to make the bride look ravishing on the big day. It is vital to have a rehearsal well ahead of time, to ensure that both you and the make-up artist are happy with the results, advises Beryl Barnard, Principal of make-up school The London Esthetique, which offers two-hour face-to-face make-up lessons for brides as well as specialist courses for make-up artists.

‘If you’re using a make-up artist, establishing a good rapport is vital,’ says Beryl. ‘It means the bride has one less thing to worry about and enables her to enjoy having her make-up done.’ Some brides, she points out, ‘may not be used to wearing make-up at all, and if they feel like a painted doll they won’t be relaxed on the day.’

Turn up wearing your usual make-up (or no make-up, if you don’t normally wear any) so that the make-up artist can see how you like to look. Keeping make-up subtle - so that you still look like you - is the key to success. The effect, explains Beryl, should be similar to your usual style, with slightly more impact - and staying power, as your make-up will have to work hard and you probably won’t have time to touch it up.

Foundation is the most important element of all, believes Beryl. ‘It must be beautifully blended so that there are no tide marks. The pale colour of a wedding dress will emphasise poor blending or skin-matching, as there may be a lot of skin on show around the shoulders and neckline.’ (For tips on finding your foundation match, see Foundations, p.00.) ‘If someone has an oily skin,’ she adds, ‘we sometimes suggest using lacto-calamine on the T-zone under foundation, to help skin stay matte.’

Brides should, of course, blush - but not excessively. ‘We tend only to use blusher if a girl is very pale. More often, we’ll use a green under-base cover-up, to tone down natural flush.’
Lips should be outlined in a soft, nude lip pencil: Beryl likes to cover the whole lip area with the pencil, so that if the lipstick itself wears off, there’s longer-lasting colour underneath. ‘I like rosy lip shades, rather than bright reds, which contrast too strongly with the white or cream of the dress,’ advises Beryl.

Eye make-up should be slightly more intense than usual, but stick to a natural palette of browns and taupes, rather than garish blues or greens: ‘A touch of white highlighter on the browbone can look stunning.’

Nails, which should be immaculate, can be painted with clear varnish, as French manicure or a pretty, pale shade of pink - whichever you prefer.

The most flattering element of all should, of course, be the dress itself. It’s worth spending time trying several different shades of white/cream/ivory to find the one which best complements your skin tone. ‘A cream or magnolia dress uplights the face beautifully. It’s the kind of effect that Hollywood employs lighting cameramen to achieve, bouncing light onto the face so that it looks utterly radiant.’ So much so, Beryl adds, ‘that if I could afford the dry cleaning bills, I’d dress in cream and white year-round.’ (Which is exactly what legendary natural health and beauty author Leslie Kenton does...)

 

GOOD IMPRESSIONS - INTERVIEWS AND FIRST DAYS AT WORK

Just three seconds is all the time it takes for a first impression to register on an interviewer - or a new work-mate. Your make-up, hair and hands are speaking for you before you even say a word, say psychologists and image professionals.

That certainly doesn’t mean you have to be stunning to get the job. ‘But it does mean that you have to look like you care,’ stresses Judith Kark, Principal of London’s Lucie Clayton Grooming & Modelling School, where women of all ages and nationalities are now taught body language and posture, among other ‘life skills’.

There is an art to projecting a winning interview image. Judith Kark’s years of experience have led her to advise girls, ‘to err on the side of polite caution.’ (In other words: no nose rings, vampy nail polish or false lashes.) Neatness counts a lot. Hair should be off the face - ‘interviewers like to see your eyes,’ - but should look natural or bouncy. A new cut or a trim can do wonders to clean up your act - but do it a week in advance to give you and your hair a chance to settle in together.

It may be too late to give up biting your nails, but that’s no excuse not to reach for the anti-nail biting lotion. According to New York image guru Virginia Sullivan, of Image Communications International, ‘Hands and shoes are the two most telling non-verbal clues which corporate recruiters look at.’ Clean fingernails really do go without saying. Nails should be short, neat and polished with clear or neutral varnish.

For a smooth handshake, carry a tube of handcream in your bag. Just in case clamminess is a problem, Judith Kark counsels carrying a hankie to wipe hands on, or brushing your hands with the same powder you use on your face, which dries them off. (Be warned: only carry pressed, not loose powder - it could spill and ruin your suit.

Even though young skin tends to look wonderfully fresh, subtly-applied make-up is a must, for interviews and in the workplace. (At many companies where image matters - like The Disney Store and British Airways - make-up is actually mandatory.) ‘No make-up at all is as sloppy as too much,’ points out Judith Kark, firmly.

Top make-up artist Ariane recommends a natural, neutral look, ‘at least until you’ve found your ground.’ Her essentials: start with an all-in-one foundation and powder, which can be touched up during the day. (N.B. in the washroom, not at your desk.) Judith Kark recommends matte-finish make-up. ‘Because if you’re nervous, you’ll be quite shiny enough.’ If you have blemishes or dark circles, put a skin tone-matched concealer on them, before your base. Next step is a camel-coloured blusher (she likes M.A.C.’s Biscuit), ‘but don’t put it just on the apples of cheeks or you’ll look like a dairymaid; sweep it along the cheekbone, too.’ Light eye make-up is another must, and good grooming definitely means plucking stray brows. Lips should be a near-natural pink, with maybe a dab of gloss or shine. (Ariane is a fan of Colourings Complete Colour all-in-one sticks, which work on cheeks and eyes, too)

If you’re still insecure about the art of cosmetic face-perfection, the pros are agreed: a make-up lesson is a terrific confidence-booster. Choose one where you can get hands-on experience, rather than simply watch while you’re transformed.
Finally, before any big interview or the first day at work, Judith Kark tells her girls to try on the clothes and the make-up they’ll be wearing, in daylight, not last thing at night. ‘Stand in front of the mirror and really try to see yourself as others will.’

 

TIP

The attitude to make-up and clothes is different in every workplace. Judith Kark suggests that, when you’re at the interview, you take a good look at the make-up and hairstyles favoured by future colleagues. ‘It’s important to play by the rules when you’re starting your career,’ she believes. When you’ve gauged the attitude to appearance you can decide whether to be more daring.

 

Body Language - Watch What You Say

The way you walk, the way you look at the interviewer and the way you shake hands can have a positive or a negative impact. Body language expert Julius Fast (author of Penguin’s Body Language in the Workplace) offers a few reminders: slouching suggests depression, while good posture points to a take-charge attitude. Looking the interviewer in the eye (without staring) signals honesty.

Leaning forward to talk and back to listen conveys involvement and enthusiasm. Keep your feet flat on the floor and knees together, rather than crossing legs. Folding your hands in your lap looks immature, but folding your arms is too defensive. Instead, rest one arm on the arm of your chair, the other in your lap. Use hands to gesture, but don’t overdo it. The clincher is your handshake: not limp, not overly firm, just brisk and friendly.

 

Interviews and the workplace

 
DON’T...

...show any cleavage (sew bra-level buttonholes with an extra couple of stitches at each side to stop them popping open embarrassingly)

...repair your make-up in the office (that’s what the Ladies is for, even if the lighting is dreadful)

...wear coloured nail varnish - it looks terrible when it chips

...go completely bare-faced - unless you are perfect-looking

...play the vamp - or the siren

...drench yourself in scent
DO...

…wear light, subtle make-up

...secure your hair off your face

...take a spare pair of shoes and tights - it’s no fun sitting around with wet feet after a dash from the station in a downpour

...buy a good hanger for your jacket/coat, and keep it at work

...keep a small make-up and hair kit, with an emery board for emergencies, in your desk drawer

...wash your hands often (and keep a tube of hand cream at work - handling paper really dries out hands)

...wear an effective deodorant/anti-perspirant. A new job can be nerve-racking and leave you feeling hot and sweaty. Mitchum is a good brand if you have problem perspiration
 
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