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Bridal Make-Up
Its hard work being a bride. Not only does everyone expect
you to look beautiful on the day itself, but the results must
stand up to scrutiny for years afterwards, in photos and on
video. So its worth the extra effort to perfect your appearance.
Most local hairdressing salons (as well
as big city salons) can put a bride in touch with a professional
make-up artist to make the bride look ravishing on the big
day. It is vital to have a rehearsal well ahead of time, to
ensure that both you and the make-up artist are happy with
the results, advises Beryl Barnard, Principal of make-up school
The London Esthetique, which offers two-hour face-to-face
make-up lessons for brides as well as specialist courses for
make-up artists.
If youre using a make-up artist, establishing
a good rapport is vital, says Beryl. It means
the bride has one less thing to worry about and enables her
to enjoy having her make-up done. Some brides, she points
out, may not be used to wearing make-up at all, and
if they feel like a painted doll they wont be relaxed
on the day.
Turn up wearing your usual make-up (or no make-up, if you
dont normally wear any) so that the make-up artist can
see how you like to look. Keeping make-up subtle - so that
you still look like you - is the key to success. The effect,
explains Beryl, should be similar to your usual style, with
slightly more impact - and staying power, as your make-up
will have to work hard and you probably wont have time
to touch it up.
Foundation is the most important element of all, believes
Beryl. It must be beautifully blended so that there
are no tide marks. The pale colour of a wedding dress will
emphasise poor blending or skin-matching, as there may be
a lot of skin on show around the shoulders and neckline.
(For tips on finding your foundation match, see Foundations,
p.00.) If someone has an oily skin, she adds,
we sometimes suggest using lacto-calamine on the T-zone
under foundation, to help skin stay matte.
Brides should, of course, blush - but not excessively. We
tend only to use blusher if a girl is very pale. More often,
well use a green under-base cover-up, to tone down natural
flush.
Lips should be outlined in a soft, nude lip pencil: Beryl
likes to cover the whole lip area with the pencil, so that
if the lipstick itself wears off, theres longer-lasting
colour underneath. I like rosy lip shades, rather than
bright reds, which contrast too strongly with the white or
cream of the dress, advises Beryl.
Eye make-up should be slightly more intense than usual, but
stick to a natural palette of browns and taupes, rather than
garish blues or greens: A touch of white highlighter
on the browbone can look stunning.
Nails, which should be immaculate, can be painted with clear
varnish, as French manicure or a pretty, pale shade of pink
- whichever you prefer.
The most flattering element of all should, of course, be the
dress itself. Its worth spending time trying several
different shades of white/cream/ivory to find the one which
best complements your skin tone. A cream or magnolia
dress uplights the face beautifully. Its the kind of
effect that Hollywood employs lighting cameramen to achieve,
bouncing light onto the face so that it looks utterly radiant.
So much so, Beryl adds, that if I could afford the dry
cleaning bills, Id dress in cream and white year-round.
(Which is exactly what legendary natural health and beauty
author Leslie Kenton does...)
GOOD IMPRESSIONS - INTERVIEWS AND FIRST
DAYS AT WORK
Just three seconds is all the time it takes for a first impression
to register on an interviewer - or a new work-mate. Your make-up,
hair and hands are speaking for you before you even say a
word, say psychologists and image professionals.
That certainly doesnt mean you have to be stunning
to get the job. But it does mean that you have to look
like you care, stresses Judith Kark, Principal of Londons
Lucie Clayton Grooming & Modelling School, where women
of all ages and nationalities are now taught body language
and posture, among other life skills.
There is an art to projecting a winning interview image. Judith
Karks years of experience have led her to advise girls,
to err on the side of polite caution. (In other
words: no nose rings, vampy nail polish or false lashes.)
Neatness counts a lot. Hair should be off the face - interviewers
like to see your eyes, - but should look natural or
bouncy. A new cut or a trim can do wonders to clean up your
act - but do it a week in advance to give you and your hair
a chance to settle in together.
It may be too late to give up biting your nails, but thats
no excuse not to reach for the anti-nail biting lotion. According
to New York image guru Virginia Sullivan, of Image Communications
International, Hands and shoes are the two most telling
non-verbal clues which corporate recruiters look at.
Clean fingernails really do go without saying. Nails should
be short, neat and polished with clear or neutral varnish.
For a smooth handshake, carry a tube of handcream in your
bag. Just in case clamminess is a problem, Judith Kark counsels
carrying a hankie to wipe hands on, or brushing your hands
with the same powder you use on your face, which dries them
off. (Be warned: only carry pressed, not loose powder - it
could spill and ruin your suit.
Even though young skin tends to look wonderfully fresh, subtly-applied
make-up is a must, for interviews and in the workplace. (At
many companies where image matters - like The Disney Store
and British Airways - make-up is actually mandatory.) No
make-up at all is as sloppy as too much, points out
Judith Kark, firmly.
Top make-up artist Ariane recommends a natural, neutral look,
at least until youve found your ground.
Her essentials: start with an all-in-one foundation and powder,
which can be touched up during the day. (N.B. in the washroom,
not at your desk.) Judith Kark recommends matte-finish make-up.
Because if youre nervous, youll be quite
shiny enough. If you have blemishes or dark circles,
put a skin tone-matched concealer on them, before your base.
Next step is a camel-coloured blusher (she likes M.A.C.s
Biscuit), but dont put it just on the apples of
cheeks or youll look like a dairymaid; sweep it along
the cheekbone, too. Light eye make-up is another must,
and good grooming definitely means plucking stray brows. Lips
should be a near-natural pink, with maybe a dab of gloss or
shine. (Ariane is a fan of Colourings Complete Colour all-in-one
sticks, which work on cheeks and eyes, too)
If youre still insecure about the art of cosmetic face-perfection,
the pros are agreed: a make-up lesson is a terrific confidence-booster.
Choose one where you can get hands-on experience, rather than
simply watch while youre transformed.
Finally, before any big interview or the first day at work,
Judith Kark tells her girls to try on the clothes and the
make-up theyll be wearing, in daylight, not last thing
at night. Stand in front of the mirror and really try
to see yourself as others will.
TIP
The attitude to make-up and
clothes is different in every workplace. Judith Kark suggests
that, when youre at the interview, you take a good look
at the make-up and hairstyles favoured by future colleagues.
Its important to play by the rules when youre
starting your career, she believes. When youve
gauged the attitude to appearance you can decide whether to
be more daring.
Body Language - Watch
What You Say
The way you walk, the way you look at the interviewer and
the way you shake hands can have a positive or a negative
impact. Body language expert Julius Fast (author of Penguins
Body Language in the Workplace) offers a few reminders: slouching
suggests depression, while good posture points to a take-charge
attitude. Looking the interviewer in the eye (without staring)
signals honesty.
Leaning forward to talk and back to listen conveys involvement
and enthusiasm. Keep your feet flat on the floor and knees
together, rather than crossing legs. Folding your hands in
your lap looks immature, but folding your arms is too defensive.
Instead, rest one arm on the arm of your chair, the other
in your lap. Use hands to gesture, but dont overdo it.
The clincher is your handshake: not limp, not overly firm,
just brisk and friendly.
Interviews and the
workplace
DONT...
...show any cleavage (sew bra-level buttonholes with an
extra couple of stitches at each side to stop them popping
open embarrassingly)
...repair your make-up in the office (thats what
the Ladies is for, even if the lighting is dreadful)
...wear coloured nail varnish - it looks terrible when
it chips
...go completely bare-faced - unless you are perfect-looking
...play the vamp - or the siren
...drench yourself in scent
DO...
wear light, subtle make-up
...secure your hair off your face
...take a spare pair of shoes and tights - its no
fun sitting around with wet feet after a dash from the
station in a downpour
...buy a good hanger for your jacket/coat, and keep it
at work
...keep a small make-up and hair kit, with an emery board
for emergencies, in your desk drawer
...wash your hands often (and keep a tube of hand cream
at work - handling paper really dries out hands)
...wear an effective deodorant/anti-perspirant. A new
job can be nerve-racking and leave you feeling hot and
sweaty. Mitchum is a good brand if you have problem perspiration